Just because women lawyers were successful in their careers, did not mean they felt successful and good in the rest of their lives. In fact, they reported feeling stressed, overwhelmed, and burned out. We can know a lot of information about how we "should" live to be healthy, but the people who took action, tried and "failed," were the most successful clients. They just learned a key lesson. Unless they DID something differently, they would keep getting what they've had. When clients enlisted a community around them, even a community of two, they were able to change their lives faster than when they tried to go it alone. Despite the self-help books they had read... Despite the clients' lives they helped change in their careers.... And despite the amazing amount of knowledge they knew.... This is because in all the years of becoming qualified and competent lawyers, nobody showed them how to use their strengths and abilities for themselves and for their own health.